Yanno when you move out of the old house…..after it’s cleaned and all is said and done you never go back except every once in a while if you’re in the neighborhood?
Some of the pictures never quite fit in the new place.
That’s what it’s like with him here almost every day.
I’ve packed Muse in a box somewhere because he doesn’t quite fit on the walls of the new house; the home I’ve chosen to make with his primary.
Odd how she and I fit so well; like we’ve been doing this for years. But he doesn’t quite fit now.
Not sure what to do or how to handle it.
He’s overstepped some boundaries here with me.
Not bothered to acknowledge my ownership here.
Made decisions for his primary that directly affect me.
Trying to find grace with it because we want an open door where everyone is welcome without knocking.
Guess that means everyone.
Wonder how long it will take the old picture to look comfortable and familiar here?
Sands of Time 
Yanno, the open door policy is what we both want. But he is (purposefully?) distant and cold and/or demanding with me when he is here. Yes interesting enough, he is now putting on his “DOM” hat-Large and in Charge….Monopolizing her time all the time without regard to life and her children or what we have planned…..
His ass is showing. Hard to find grace with it.
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Wow…Big changes in that relationship. How does she feel about him being a part of the open door policy? Has he trod on any of her boundaries?
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We both want him as part of the open door policy. and others as well. Open door means everyone is welcome. And yes he has trod on some of her boundaries….but that is their peice. All I can do is offer and ear, support and understanding.
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I guess it will take some time wont’ it? I’m proud of you. You’ve changed a great deal in the past months. Good for you sweety…
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