Less than two weeks for it to blow up again.
He took the day off work yesterday so we could finish the car. And we did.
Runs like a champ. What a great job. I am so grateful for all his work and willingness to accommodate his schedule to help me. Saved me about $1000.00 too.
Cleaned the garage…got a lot of chores done. A really good day. Positive and upbeat for the both of us.
Ever so peaceful and centered for me. I know he felt accomplished as well.
All this work finished so he could spend some time this weekend with her. A Friday night date, and most of the weekend. For her. To make her happy and honor plans she made for them.
She never answered his numerous phone calls last night. Never called back. Poof. Not available.
Today? They haven’t talked. He is on his way to her house to get “stuff” he has there. Clothes and stuff I guess. *shrugs* She’s home-she’s logged on her YIM. It is an excuse to confront her since she’s not being responsive. Funny thing…had she called and told him she had other plans, he would have been fine with it.
I feel bad. Nope I didn’t say I feel badly….as if I have some part in this. I don’t. What I am not going to do is absorb and parrot back any of his emotions. I’m not taking that on.
I’m a bit sad to have lost this bet. For as much as I don’t like her, he loves her dearly. But to really see up close and personal that each and every time he hands even the tiniest part of his heart to her….she steps on it…makes my heart hurt for him.
But honestly, why do people play self fulfilling prophecies like this?


I’m sad for him too.
I don’t know why people do the self fulfilling prophecies thing. I do it. I try not to, but I’m still doing it. *shrugs*
It doesn’t sound to me like anyone in that situation is really winning.
I’m glad you are maintaining your emotional boundaries about this. ((hugs))
I do as well from time to time. I need to not think so dammed much. LOL.
No one is winning. It hurts me to have his heart hurt like this. No matter what….I want him to be happy. He’s such an outstanding man.
Yes, I’ve been able to set a few more yesterday. More on that later.
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