Category Archives: submissive musings

crime and punishment

Newtons 3rd Law of Motion: For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Perhaps one should consider not just the re-action when assessing damage, guilt, crime and punishment, but the initial action as well. Isn’t it a pity … Continue reading

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The Oracle-part one

As foretold by the Oracle: Sheep will always bleat what you want to hear for they act solely out of fear; they can never do anything but follow. Trust and respect the ones who do not spare words or truth … Continue reading

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lifestyle musings

Since entering the lifestyle one concept I had to wrap my head around was that I was my own Dominant.  It’s not about having or not having A Dominant because I truly believe that surrender and submission start internally. It’s … Continue reading

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sticking to boundaries

I received this text last week on my way to Denver to see my new grandbaby: I’m still your friend when you decide to stop holding a grudge. *bristling* A few back and forth texts with me repeatedly stating that … Continue reading

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bite me

Don’t ever say, Bite Me, to a Dominant even in jest. She did. We were both laughing so hard I’m surprised she held on long enough for these to last well over 3 days. Despite the laughter she didn’t let … Continue reading

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moulds

rich is the one who encourages the individual builds strengths from weakness poor is the one who creates sameness to fit a mould.  

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masks

who are you? do i know you? can you shed your mask instead of hiding behind a creation of what you think you need to be, and what you think i need to see….    

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On Service

I do believe its more than a bit of a fairytale for anyone to think service is ONLY a need for any s-type and it’s how they receive validation of who they are.  They need tasks to keep busy.  After … Continue reading

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building

You told me I had a fuck load of work to do. So I built a shelter with 6 chairs and a large table. The shelter is sturdy and warm,  It keeps out the snow, rain and harsh winds of … Continue reading

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a mile

You couldn’t walk a mile in my shoes any more than I could walk in yours.

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mind fuck

Is it all just a bunch of rationalizations?  Mind fucks we are performing on ourselves to wrap our head around concepts and philosophies we don’t yet fully understand, aren’t particularly happy with, or haven’t fully accepted? It’s always easier to … Continue reading

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and counting…

Five here equals five owed there.  A weekend here must equal another weekend there. It’s not about the hours counted and parceled out.  It’s about quality time. Not quantity. One happy with a weekend, one happy with an evening, another … Continue reading

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as long as

As long as no one throws anyone else under the bus inadvertently or otherwise. Here’s a potential problem.   What is talked or relayed between two and then relayed to another changes hue if not color..  Each puts a personal spin … Continue reading

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so different we are her and I. a most unlikely combination of leo and capricorn. ridiculously opposite perfectly balanced tossing the ball back and forth. ideas, fears, hopes, dreams, laughter, tears of the sisters so very different yet so much … Continue reading

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et tu?

And….what is it you want from me if I still have a fuck load of work to do?

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