Category Archives: polyamory

clarifying

what I am not willing to do: begrudge you attempt to make you choose compete for you tell you what you want to hear be someone I’m not for anyone’s benefit be dishonest about how I feel, regardless of what … Continue reading

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labels and boxes

A remark was made this weekend about “being careful” with saying, I Love You.  That saying it too much dilutes the meaning. I disagree strongly.  While I do believe words are cheap and actions speak louder than words, what do … Continue reading

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Study guide: words for the week

Read the following definitions. Use these definitions and no others. Try not to be colored by the ones you may employ in your current relationship(s), or what you have previously read. Compare metamour with primary and secondary. Do the words … Continue reading

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through the looking glass

I talked to my roommate about this. And then sent it along to his metamour.  I know my roommate heard me, and understands.  The other acknowledges there is truth in the below. But we have not talked face to face.  … Continue reading

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masks

who are you? do i know you? can you shed your mask instead of hiding behind a creation of what you think you need to be, and what you think i need to see….    

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and counting…

Five here equals five owed there.  A weekend here must equal another weekend there. It’s not about the hours counted and parceled out.  It’s about quality time. Not quantity. One happy with a weekend, one happy with an evening, another … Continue reading

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as long as

As long as no one throws anyone else under the bus inadvertently or otherwise. Here’s a potential problem.   What is talked or relayed between two and then relayed to another changes hue if not color..  Each puts a personal spin … Continue reading

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so different we are her and I. a most unlikely combination of leo and capricorn. ridiculously opposite perfectly balanced tossing the ball back and forth. ideas, fears, hopes, dreams, laughter, tears of the sisters so very different yet so much … Continue reading

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process vs product

You don’t need to know the process of Walking in Grace; that long crooked path we took to arrive home.  You don’t need to know every pebble we stumbled on, every boulder we climbed, or every bridge with broken slats … Continue reading

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thoughts on time management

I’ve been struggling with both sides of a debate of sorts related to time management, and poly relationships. From those who feel others are always asking for more time to those who don’t think they get enough time or the … Continue reading

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