Category Archives: Along the Continuum

Fleshing the fat from the meat

7 going on 30

Well, I wish you were going to be here Friday night, your could dress me for my date. What are you wearing? (Shows her low cut white sweater) Ohhh…that’s nice! Yeah, Your dad likes this one too. What skirt are … Continue reading

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Girly, Girl Stuff

One of the few girly, girl things I do on a regular basis is to take care of my feet and hands.   Love going for a manicure or pedicure.  At the least, my toes are *always* painted.  Not always my … Continue reading

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surrender in friendship…

sur·ren·der (sə ren′dər) transitive verb to give up possession of or power over; yield to another on demand or compulsion to give up claim to; give over or yield, esp. voluntarily, as in favor of another to give up or … Continue reading

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Too much

sometimes I think I know entirely too much about others sharing so intimately leaves me sometimes looking them thru his eyes… knowing both process, and feelings i have to guard against being judgmental using anothers perspective letting it color my … Continue reading

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Notes to self:

ACK!! consider the font colors of past posts on the background color of the old theme *before* activating a new theme.   many of my posts are in light colors and are not readable anymore….perusing over 300 posts to find which … Continue reading

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beeeep….no one is home to take your call….

Been thinking about something the past few days…. Talking about not being ready for “relationships” in any way. While we would both prefer to spend the “energy” on one, we maintain what we have in a very laissez faire manner. … Continue reading

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*sighs*

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November 9 2009

I have to preface this as this particular post was born out of a ongoing personal discussions with a friend; It does not apply to anyone else.  I don’t want to hear what submission – especially in the context of … Continue reading

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45 Days in…..

My car, distinguished and Honorable Subie, is parked in the driveway of a small house in the mountains where it will likely stay for the next few months at the house I can call my home base for the next … Continue reading

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The New Year

I’m not one for resolutions.  I see it like the exercise machine we bought last year in an effort to do better. It ends up being the catchall for belts and ties and long worn out sweatshirts we profess to … Continue reading

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I am not religious

I am not Catholic. Yet, an increasing desire to sit in the Church with emptiness and sanctuary protecting me. Yet, A desire to go to confess my sins to the priest who lives there.

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Thinking last night….late….It’s the 1-3am can’t sleep program again. I’ve been single over 4 years and divorced three. I’ve had plenty of one night stands, a few FBuddies, a couple FWBenefits.  A lover or two on occasion. Off and on … Continue reading

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Choice

We are shaped by our thoughts;  we become what we think. When the mind is pure,  joy follows like a shadow that never leaves. – Buddha-

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of more

I don’t know how I arrived here. Honestly, the thought process escapes me. Was it one of those logical lists I love to make? Pro against con, this against that; purposefully weighing the scales in favor of a scenario that … Continue reading

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not working on it

Some things are a total “feel” for me.   Well, most of life is a total “feel” for me. Always has been. Some have tried to tell me it’s wrong.  And listen to my heart.  What do they know?  They are … Continue reading

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