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Even when he’s not here

he’s here. My Anam Cara is in the Bay area for a few days. He is gracious enough to leave the door open, a light on and a spare key in the drawer for my use until he returns.  It’s … Continue reading

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all colors of lies

A lie, no matter the color of the lie, is never told to protect us. People lie to protect themselves and avoid perceived conflicts associated with truth telling. Lies protect the liar…

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First

I’ve decided I’m not objective enough or supportive enough. My own filters and experiences are seriously getting in the way especially the past two weeks. Still not feeling very gracious towards him. Even tho I’ve voiced this to her, and … Continue reading

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venting

He told me 6 weeks ago to “My life is better off without you in it. Leave me alone.” this was after I told him he was an Ass and rude to me in my house. OK, So be it…..I … Continue reading

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chaos

I am sorry you are caught in the middle defending the Sanctuary of the house and your position as his slave to him, yourself, me and everyone else. I’ve stated how I see things, what I can comfortably do with … Continue reading

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Mantra for the day

I will walk tall and proud in my own truth and my own light. I will abide by the tenets I have set for myself, and honor The 4 Agreements to the best of my ability each and every day.

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the Oracle-part two

The King became increasingly preoccupied with laying in bed only to be attended by many nameless, faceless serving wenches from far and near who tripped over themselves serving steaming bowls of toenail soup, and fought among themselves for the honor … Continue reading

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The Oracle-part one

As foretold by the Oracle: Sheep will always bleat what you want to hear for they act solely out of fear; they can never do anything but follow. Trust and respect the ones who do not spare words or truth … Continue reading

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for Scott…..

You can take a horse to the water but you can’t make him drink Oh no, oh no, oh no A friend of mine in so much misery Some people sail through life,but he has struck a reef I said … Continue reading

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Eight virtues

Self Control – It is a non-negotiable in my eyes. If you cannot control your own behavior whether you are owned or not, you need to learn how. No one is going to save you. It’s your own responsibility. Respect … Continue reading

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guidelines

The first and most important: this home is a sanctuary for all who live here.  It is safe haven.  A retreat for her and I and the children.  It cannot be any other way.  All else comes after this one… … Continue reading

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starving

crumbs tossed on the wind as bits and sound bytes in the all too fleeting nanoseconds of time hungry for a full meal cool water for parched lips tired of waiting they leave searching to be fed

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clearing the land

stripping the soil of weeds around seedlings struggling for light and water. planting new seeds in the hope of future blooms.

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personal resonsibility

There is a lot to be said about personal responsibility both in and out of the lifestyle. There is much to be said about owning our own behavior. It’s said too, the submissive (or slave or bottom) always has the … Continue reading

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vindicated

It makes my heart hurt. To have been doubted. To have been dismissed as jealous and possessive when I spoke to what I saw or heard, and knew in my heart to be true. It hurts he would think of … Continue reading

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