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I run with knives

reading between the lines

is not something I do well. While I am energetically aware of shifts, I prefer that people just speak. say what you mean and mean what you say. don’t leave me to try and infer meanings especially when the energy … Continue reading

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exile

Once upon a time, exile from the tribe meant nothing more than almost certain death. With all protection and shared methods of survival cut off, one either wandered alone and likely starved, or hoped they weren’t killed trying to enter … Continue reading

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blood bath

I taste your blood mixed with mine. For the knife buried in my heart pierces yours as well….

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labels and boxes

A remark was made this weekend about “being careful” with saying, I Love You.  That saying it too much dilutes the meaning. I disagree strongly.  While I do believe words are cheap and actions speak louder than words, what do … Continue reading

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I don’t

Cut and run easily. Never have. I stick around for what I believe to be worth the effort. Perhaps it’s more about some kind of absurd inability to let go than my usual tenacity. Maybe it’s just magical thinking on … Continue reading

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putting responsibility where it belongs

Letting everyone know where I am going and when I am coming back isn’t an issue especially with the kids here.  It’s also somewhat of a safety move on my part. What isn’t fine is if I have a change … Continue reading

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rights & responsibilities

Everyone has the right to remove themselves from a perceived explosive situation. Everyone. Sometimes it’s the most responsible action we can take.

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sniffing bellies

If you attempt to roll someone over and they acquiesce, does it mean you’ve “won” and they have “lost”? Be careful with that assumption. Sometimes it’s better to give the appearance of rolling over and letting someone else sniff your … Continue reading

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Study guide: words for the week

Read the following definitions. Use these definitions and no others. Try not to be colored by the ones you may employ in your current relationship(s), or what you have previously read. Compare metamour with primary and secondary. Do the words … Continue reading

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through the looking glass

I talked to my roommate about this. And then sent it along to his metamour.  I know my roommate heard me, and understands.  The other acknowledges there is truth in the below. But we have not talked face to face.  … Continue reading

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As far as I’m concerned

It WAS the Last Supper…..

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Question

Do the means justify the end?  

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Happy Thanksgiving!

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.  ~John Fitzgerald Kennedy~

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weapon of choice

We use the only weapon we have against others; that one which we know hurts us personally the most.  It is after all, the one we know the best. The one that makes the deepest cut….  

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contradictions

Contradictions do not exist. Whenever you think you are facing a contradiction, check your premises. You will find that one of them is wrong. ~Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged~

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