There are no wrong reasons to Love or to be Loving to another.
Even if we leave our heart on the doorstep and walk away
whether that be for a time or forever,
There is nothing but joy in doing so.
To feel otherwise, to look for reasons to regret Love
because we are not getting what we think we are due
from another does nothing but
tarnishes Love and what we feel.
Owning Love for ourselves is not the answer.
Rather, owning how we feel and not looking for
reasons to be resentful of what we freely gave
is the greatest gift we can give ourselves and others.
Today I know I am Loved beyond measure.
No matter what, that will never change.
It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex or lovemaking,
the joy of it or any lack of it.
It has everything to do with intimacy crafted between
them over time and with an extraordinary
amount of trust and caring and honesty.